This is what we were made for: holiness saturated with love. Perhaps the easiest way to remember this is by memorizing a little tiny half verse in 1st Thessalonians 4:3
For this is the will of God, your sanctification:
If you have ever worried, “I wonder what God’s will for my life is,” the answer is simple: holiness.
—Confessions of a Mega Church Pastor by Allen Hunt, p.42